When Your Ex Husband Passes Away.

We were married for 22 years, before he left me, out of the blue, for someone else, back in 2014. Our divorce was final in 2015. You can read the detailed story at https://heleftnowwhatblog.com/2014/12/23/the-back-story/ I was shocked to find out that he passed away on Aug 23, 2021 of Covid. He was only 57 years […]

Couple of updates..

When my nephew passed 3 weeks ago, I really struggled with the decision to let my soon-to-be-ex know the tragic news. He and my nephew had a pretty close relationship. My ex and I have not spoken since he left me last May, except through lawyers. I have no way to reach him so I […]

Sadness and progress…

So much going on…from the recent tragedy, my nephews death, R.I.P J, to my divorce proceedings. The healing process has begun. It’s not goodbye, it’s see you down the road. Such a young man to leave us so soon. Thank you for all of your kinds words of support. Please do NOT drink and drive. […]

Another senseless tragedy

I have experienced a lot of loss and sadness in my life and this past weekend, my family was hit again. One of my nephews, only 20 years old, died due to a car accident 2 days ago. Such a tragedy. He had an argument with his girlfriend and got in his car to come […]