I have a way to see the ex’s facebook page, even though I am blocked from his page. I know I need to stop looking, but my curiosity is getting the best of me. I don’t look every day, in fact, over the last year and a 1/2 since he left me, I look less and less. I can only see what he makes public and some things he purposely posts publicly. I guess he hopes that I will see it somehow and I am.
I happened to have looked yesterday and it wasn’t good. He and she were celebrating the fact that the divorce is final and she made a nasty comment about me. Where does she get off doing that? He left me for her!! He seems so angry, which is part of his depression, and probably his guilt, coming out.
I have been really good this entire time and said nothing disparaging publicly AT ALL, on social media. It is not the place to do that, even though lots of people do.
My new years resolution is to stop looking at his page and move on with my new life. I have been seeing someone and we are really happy so far. I need to cleanse myself of the past and concentrate on the here and now.
As soon as the deed to the house is transferred to me, I am sending a letter to him for my closure. I will publish the letter when I send it as well. I have been working on it for 19 months. I am pretty happy with it too. It feels good to get it out of my head.
Has anyone else ever sent a letter?