My divorce was final on 12/3(3 days before my 50th birthday) but I got the notice in the mail today!!!
How do I feel, you ask?
Well, I feel empty, relieved, happy, sad, broke, and like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
There’s just one more detail that has to be taken care of.
I was so good this entire time and followed everything by the book but now, since I played that prank, the deed is being held by his lawyer. He is requesting money for the “damage” I caused to his stuff.
LOL There was no damage. He is just being a jerk to the final end.
I need that deed so I can get the mortgage in my name only. Then I can start fresh financially. This divorce cost me a lot of money, money I really didn’t have, but I made it work. Thank god my lawyer takes payments.
I also decided that I will not change my name for now. It’s not worth the aggravation at this time.
What an ordeal. I learned a lot and I don’t want to ever go through this again.